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Does any medical center give free mammogram appointments in the Solano County, CA? (for someone who has no medical insurance + the age of 51)
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anonymous
Family Member or Loved One
To find a facility near you, you can go to this link that is provided by National Breast Cancer Foundation and FujiFilm: http://www.imagesofhealth.com/pages/facility-locator.php. I would recommend calling the facility that you choose to make sure that you qualify for their program. If for some...
Comment 1To find a facility near you, you can go to this link that is provided by National Breast Cancer Foundation and FujiFilm: http://www.imagesofhealth.com/pages/facility-locator.php. I would recommend calling the facility that you choose to make sure that you qualify for their program. If for some reason you do not, try another facility.
I hope this helps you. It is so important to get a mammogram.
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October is Breast Cancer Awareness month. What can I do to help out?
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Family Member or Loved One-
anonymous
Learning About Breast Cancer
Great question! Visit the National Breast Cancer Foundation's How to Help Page: http://www.nationalbreastcancer.org/How-To-Help/ to learn how you can help. Anything you can do can make a difference and help us save lives. Thanks!
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anonymous
Family Member or Loved One
Thank you
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I have no insurance and my unemployment is running out. I am a widow and live alone at the age of 55. I have cancer and soon will have no income. Where do I look for help?
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Stage 2A Patient-
anonymous
Stage 3A Patient
What state are u located in?
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anonymous
Learning About Breast Cancer
Ask Mcmillan for help :-)
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I am struggling with how cancer consumes my everyday thoughts. This month is especially difficult when we are bombarded with pink everywhere. I finished treatment 7 months ago and I still have it on my mind everyday. When will it go away?
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anonymous
Stage 4 Patient
Hi Betsy, unfortunately I can't answer that. I often wonder the same. Will it ever end? I am still in the middle of my treatments. I finished my last chemo just a few weeks ago and will have a double mastectomy in less than two weeks. Then finally radiation. And you're right...pink is everywhere...
Comment 3Hi Betsy, unfortunately I can't answer that. I often wonder the same. Will it ever end? I am still in the middle of my treatments. I finished my last chemo just a few weeks ago and will have a double mastectomy in less than two weeks. Then finally radiation. And you're right...pink is everywhere this month. Of course you and I...and all the other women
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anonymous
Survivor since 2010
Thank you to each and every one of you for answering. You have really helped me become more optimistic about this and I know this all consuming breast cancer feeling shall pass. In most moments of the day, I am the happiest I have ever been in my life due to my cancer journey. Time shall heal and...
Comment 3Thank you to each and every one of you for answering. You have really helped me become more optimistic about this and I know this all consuming breast cancer feeling shall pass. In most moments of the day, I am the happiest I have ever been in my life due to my cancer journey. Time shall heal and cancer will stay in the background of my life. Today is a good day!
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I have a friend who wants to donate new jewelry, in my name, for a fundraiser event. Is there a way for her to do this?
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Learning About Breast Cancer-
anonymous
Industry Provider
@Carole...so glad that a friend is willing to help out in such a creative way! You might want to check this out: http://fundraising.nbcf.org/how-you-can-help/
NBCF has a web tool where people can create events and/or online fundraising pages. That might be a good way to promote the jewelry along...
Comment 1@Carole...so glad that a friend is willing to help out in such a creative way! You might want to check this out: http://fundraising.nbcf.org/how-you-can-help/
NBCF has a web tool where people can create events and/or online fundraising pages. That might be a good way to promote the jewelry along with your cause. Best of wishes with it!
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My recently diagnosed 40yr old sister-in-law doesn't want my help. We live 30 miles away and only see her a few times a year. Her church and neighbors are supportive. Any suggestions on how to be there for her?
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anonymous
Survivor since 2010
How to help? One thing about breast cancer is that it can be a long process between surgery, chemotherapy and radiation. I know when I was going through treatment, I didn't want help either and I didn't want people hovering over me because I was determined not to be a patient. However people...
Comment 3How to help? One thing about breast cancer is that it can be a long process between surgery, chemotherapy and radiation. I know when I was going through treatment, I didn't want help either and I didn't want people hovering over me because I was determined not to be a patient. However people comforted me in many ways. My sisters who lived out of town, checked in with me weekly by phone or email, they sent care packages during the weeks I had chemotherapy with books, warm fuzzy socks, and sometimes sent flowers. My friends were determined to cook for me, but I was dreading being bombarded with visitors when I felt miserable. So I placed a cooler outside my door and they all took turns delivering food for my family when I could not function. One place I looked forward to having visitors was the chemotherapy room because I needed to sit there for a few hours and I was usually feeling quite well on those days. Some friends and family also drove me to radiation as it was an hours drive away. And then there were cards and notes in the mail that to this day I still read as I look back on how people helped me when I never wanted help, but that is what got me through the most difficult time in my life. I am thankful that so many people found a way to care. My thoughts are with you and your sister- in-law and I know you will find your own way to help her. Take care!
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anonymous
Learning About Breast Cancer
I agree with all of the above. Never underestimate the power of prayer. I recently experienced a very bad cancer scare, and felt comforted through the prayers of others.
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My mom just found out today that she has breast cancer. How can me and my family support her in every way possible?
Asked by anonymous
Learning About Breast Cancer-
anonymous
Learning About Breast Cancer
Sam, I'm sorry about your mom. I too have been recent diagnosed with breast cancer. Although all breast cancers are not alike ( I had a lumptectomy and lymph nodes removed, 1 node cancerous, and the surgeon removed all of the cancer and still have to go through chemo), the diagnosis is still...
Comment 2Sam, I'm sorry about your mom. I too have been recent diagnosed with breast cancer. Although all breast cancers are not alike ( I had a lumptectomy and lymph nodes removed, 1 node cancerous, and the surgeon removed all of the cancer and still have to go through chemo), the diagnosis is still shocking. Luckily, even if its Stage II, or a large tumor, lots of women have survived worse scenarios than mine over the past decade or so. Continue, like my family did for me, to give her TLC, support and prayers. Accompany her to her dr's appts. It helps to have another body or 2 present, be it either friend or relative to ask questions and take notes. Especially important to have someone there because all the information you get is very overwhelming, and you or someone else might think of questions your mom hasn't thought of. Having a positive attitude helps too! Best wishes to you and your family.
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anonymous
Survivor since 2011
Just be there...sometimes she will be in good spirits, sometimes she'll need to cry. When she does, she needs compassion, not advice (I.e. If she says she's scared, don't minimalize it by saying everything will be fine or to think positive b/c frankly, we don't want to think positively. ...
2 comments 2Just be there...sometimes she will be in good spirits, sometimes she'll need to cry. When she does, she needs compassion, not advice (I.e. If she says she's scared, don't minimalize it by saying everything will be fine or to think positive b/c frankly, we don't want to think positively. Instead, say something like, I'm sure this is scary for you and I'm here for you).
Set up a plan for family members to go to all appointments with her. Help her tell people b/c that can be overwhelming. Cook, clean, do laundry. See if neighbors/friends can set up a calendar to prepare meals, visit.
Take her out when she's feeling good so it's not always about the cancer--and make het laugh!
It sounds like she has a strong support group with you and your family ... That is crucial. I'll be thinking of you
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My good friend has just been diagnosed with breast cancer. What can I do or say to help her through this?
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anonymous
Learning About Breast Cancer
Hello my name is Francine and I was where ur friend is now all I wanted to here was that my family/friends were goin to be there for me every step of the way !!Assure ur friend that GoD Makes no Mistakes and there's a million and one prayers goin her way!!Take care and remember to always smile...
2 comments 2Hello my name is Francine and I was where ur friend is now all I wanted to here was that my family/friends were goin to be there for me every step of the way !!Assure ur friend that GoD Makes no Mistakes and there's a million and one prayers goin her way!!Take care and remember to always smile that is one thing Cancer can't take from u
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anonymous
Survivor since 2011
Be there as often as you can. I remember it getting hard when ppl kept asking "how are you feeling?". Bc if I was honest I would have said I feel like crap, I'm scared, I feel sick, I'm afraid of dying, etc. So, get in the habit of saying: I hope you're feeling well today, or I was thinking of...
Comment 2Be there as often as you can. I remember it getting hard when ppl kept asking "how are you feeling?". Bc if I was honest I would have said I feel like crap, I'm scared, I feel sick, I'm afraid of dying, etc. So, get in the habit of saying: I hope you're feeling well today, or I was thinking of you today. Also, don't say "let me know if there's something I can do" bc it puts the burden back on her and it's so hard to ask for help. Instead, ask when her appointments are and plan to go with her (if she has no one else that can go), stop by (call or text first) with a meal when she's sick from chemo and clean up a little while you're there. Bring funny movies or books ('the sh*t my dad says' is hilarious--someone gave it to me), bring gossip, distractions are good. Try not to probe by asking a ton of questions all the time, but let her know you're always there to listen. She'll start to open up when she wants. If she's sad, let her be. Be comforting but don't give advice. (like empathize and say you know it must be hard and scary, but don't say things like, look for the silver linking, or try to be positive...some days, she'll just be sad and angry will need a shoulder to cry on)
When she's feeling well, keep her busy! If you aren't always free, create a calendar for friends/colleagues that can cook, visit, take her out, etc.
If she plans on wearing a wig, offer to go with her to pick it out before her hair falls out. Then, when it starts to fall out, offer to shave it (my friend gave me a Mohawk).
When her treatments are over, months from now, keep checking in...that's a tough time emotionally, even when hair starts to grow back. Breast cancer is life changing and we still think about it even post treatment.
Of course, you can't do it all, but get your friends together to help with all of this.
I've truly seen who my true friends are with how they've dealt with my diagnosis. I'm young(32), and I've read and agree that breast cancer is lonely for young women bc most of our peers have no idea what it's like. If your friend is young, help her check out programs for young women with BC
best wishes
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My mother in law is 82 years old who lives in a nursing home was just recently diagnosed with breast cancer. What can I do to help?
Asked by anonymous
Learning About Breast Cancer-
anonymous
Survivor since 2001
Be there for her. Assuming that she is capable of making her own decisions, make sure her doctor presents and she understands her treatment options. Respect what she wants. At her age, she may (or may not) choose to opt out of some of the more drastic treatment options for those that will give...
Comment 0Be there for her. Assuming that she is capable of making her own decisions, make sure her doctor presents and she understands her treatment options. Respect what she wants. At her age, she may (or may not) choose to opt out of some of the more drastic treatment options for those that will give her a better quality of life.
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I found a lump in my right breast and am going for a biopsy on Monday. (after an ultrasound where they found a suspicious mass) Should I be worried?
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anonymous
Stage 4 Patient
Hi Jennifer, i know finding a lump is scary. I've been there. You're doing the right thing by having a biopsy. It's difficult waiting for the results but, just know that 80% of biopsies are benign. So keep your chin up and I'll say a prayer that you're in that 80%! Take care. :)
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anonymous
Survivor since 2006
Hi Jennifer I would not be honest if I were to tell you not to worry. It's only human to worry especially when you are waiting for results of any kind. However, I will tell you try not to dwell on the outcome pray and ask God to give you strength and peace until they are received. I will also ...
Comment 3Hi Jennifer I would not be honest if I were to tell you not to worry. It's only human to worry especially when you are waiting for results of any kind. However, I will tell you try not to dwell on the outcome pray and ask God to give you strength and peace until they are received. I will also be praying for you. Stay encouraged maintain your Faith and Hope. Remember all If not most of us on this site are here to support you.
Love and Blessings
Your Sister of Hope!!!
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